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Mental Health & Therapy Terms: A Plain-Language Guide

Therapy and mental health come with a lot of jargon. Search or browse the terms below, from everyday words to the North Carolina licenses, services and crisis lines you may hear about.

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504 Plan

North Carolina

A plan under Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act that provides accommodations so a student with a disability can access learning. It is broader than an IEP and does not use a fixed list of disabilities.

988

North Carolina

The Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Call or text 988, or chat online, to reach a trained counselor any time. It is free and confidential, and it is for any kind of emotional crisis, not only thoughts of suicide.

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Accommodations

Neurodivergence

Changes to a setting, task or rule that make it possible for someone to participate fully, such as extra time, a quieter workspace or written instructions.

ACT

Therapy & care

Acceptance and commitment therapy. An approach that helps you make room for difficult thoughts and feelings while taking steps toward what matters to you.

ADHD

Neurodivergence

Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder. A neurodevelopmental difference that can affect attention regulation, activity level, impulse control, time awareness and organization. It looks different from person to person, and many people are not identified until adulthood.

Anxiety

Feelings & experiences

A natural response to stress or uncertainty that can include worry, tension and a sense of dread. It becomes something to get support for when it lasts, feels hard to control or starts to get in the way of daily life.

Attachment

Relationships

The way early relationships shape how we connect with others. Attachment ideas can be a helpful lens, but online quizzes should not be treated as fixed labels or diagnoses.

Autism

Neurodivergence

A neurodevelopmental difference that shapes how a person communicates, experiences sensory input and connects with others. Autistic people have a wide range of strengths and support needs.

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Behavioral Health Urgent Care

North Carolina

A walk-in place for immediate mental health or substance use help that does not require a hospital stay. Most are open around the clock and can support you for up to 23 hours.

Boundary

Relationships

A limit that describes what you will do, allow or take part in. Boundaries are about your own actions and choices. They are not rules for controlling another person.

Burnout

Feelings & experiences

Deep exhaustion that builds up after long-term stress, often tied to work or caregiving. It can look like feeling drained, detached, cynical or less effective. It is not a personal failing.

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CBT

Therapy & care

Cognitive behavioral therapy. A structured approach that looks at how thoughts, feelings and behaviors influence one another, and builds practical skills for changing patterns that are not helping.

Codependency

Relationships

A pattern in which a person's sense of worth or stability depends heavily on caring for or pleasing someone else, often at the expense of their own needs. It is a description of a pattern, not a formal diagnosis.

Coercive control

Relationships

A pattern of behavior used to dominate a partner through isolation, monitoring, intimidation or restricting money and choices. It is a form of abuse and needs a safety-first response, not couples techniques.

Complex trauma

Feelings & experiences

A term for the effects of trauma that happened repeatedly or over a long period, often in childhood or in relationships where escape was not possible. It can affect trust, self-image and how safe the world feels.

Confidentiality

Therapy & care

Your therapist's duty to keep what you share private. There are limits, such as a serious risk of harm to yourself or others, suspected abuse of a child or vulnerable adult, or a court order. A good therapist explains these at the start.

Coping skills

Feelings & experiences

Things you do to manage stress or difficult feelings, such as movement, talking with someone, creative outlets, breathing or setting limits. Helpful coping skills vary from person to person.

Counselor

Therapy & care

Often used interchangeably with therapist. In North Carolina, licensed counselors hold titles such as LCMHC or LCMHCA.

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DBT

Therapy & care

Dialectical behavior therapy. A skills-based approach that teaches mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation and communication skills.

Depression

Feelings & experiences

A mood condition marked by persistent sadness, loss of interest or energy, changes in sleep or appetite, and trouble concentrating. It is common, and it is treatable with support.

Diagnosis

Therapy & care

A name a qualified professional gives to a pattern of symptoms after an evaluation. You can go to therapy without one, and insurance may require one for coverage.

Dissociation

Feelings & experiences

A feeling of being disconnected from your thoughts, body, surroundings or sense of time. Mild versions, such as zoning out, are common. It can also be a way the mind protects itself during overwhelming experiences.

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Ego state therapy

Therapy & care

An approach that views the personality as made up of different parts, or states, and works to help those parts communicate and feel understood.

EMDR

Therapy & care

Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing. A structured therapy used mainly for trauma that involves recalling distressing memories while following guided bilateral stimulation, such as eye movements. It requires specific training.

Emotional regulation

Feelings & experiences

The ability to notice, understand and respond to strong emotions in ways that fit the situation. Everyone's starting point is different, and regulation skills can be learned and practiced.

Executive functioning

Neurodivergence

The mental skills that help you plan, start tasks, keep track of information, manage time and shift between activities. Many people find these harder at times, and ADHD and autism often affect them.

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Facility-Based Crisis

North Carolina

A short-term place to stay for more intensive mental health stabilization or substance use detox when a shorter visit is not enough.

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Gaslighting

Relationships

A pattern in which someone repeatedly denies or twists what happened so that the other person begins to doubt their own memory or perception.

Grief

Feelings & experiences

The many feelings that follow a loss, such as sadness, anger, guilt, numbness or relief. Grief does not follow a set timeline or order, and it can come with losses other than death.

Grounding

Feelings & experiences

Simple techniques that bring your attention back to the present moment, such as noticing what you can see and hear, feeling your feet on the floor, or holding something cold.

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Hypervigilance

Feelings & experiences

A state of being constantly on guard and scanning for danger. It often develops after living with stress or threat, and it can be exhausting.

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IEP

North Carolina

Individualized Education Program. A written plan for a student who qualifies for special education services under federal law, describing goals, services and supports. NC's parent center, ECAC, can explain the process.

Imposter syndrome

Feelings & experiences

A persistent feeling that you do not deserve your accomplishments and will be found out. It is not a formal diagnosis, and it is common among high achievers.

Intake

Therapy & care

The first stage of starting care: paperwork and a conversation about what brought you in, your history and your goals.

Intrusive thoughts

Feelings & experiences

Unwanted thoughts, images or urges that pop into your mind and feel upsetting or out of character. They are common. They become distressing when you feel you must fight, hide or neutralize them.

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LCMHC

North Carolina

Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor. A master's-level counselor licensed by the NC Board of Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselors to diagnose and treat mental health conditions.

LCMHCA

North Carolina

Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate. A counselor who has completed a master's degree and is working toward full licensure while supervised.

LCSW

North Carolina

Licensed Clinical Social Worker. A social worker with a master's degree and supervised clinical experience who provides therapy and can diagnose mental health conditions.

LCSWA

North Carolina

Licensed Clinical Social Worker Associate. A social worker with a master's degree who is completing supervised experience toward the LCSW license.

Licensed psychological associate

North Carolina

A master's-level psychology license in North Carolina. Licensed psychological associates practice under supervision.

Licensed psychologist

North Carolina

In North Carolina, a doctoral-level clinician licensed by the NC Psychology Board. Psychologists provide therapy and psychological testing and assessment.

LMFT

North Carolina

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. A therapist trained to work with individuals, couples and families, with a focus on relationships and family patterns.

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Masking

Neurodivergence

Hiding or suppressing natural traits, such as stimming or direct communication, or copying others in order to fit in. It can be tiring over time and is often connected to safety and belonging.

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Mindfulness

Feelings & experiences

Paying attention to the present moment on purpose, with curiosity rather than judgment. It can be brief and does not require sitting still.

Mobile Crisis Team

North Carolina

One or two counselors who can come to you at home, school or another safe place during a mental health crisis. In Pitt County, call 1-866-437-1821. It is free, even without insurance.

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NC Medicaid Tailored Plan

North Carolina

A North Carolina Medicaid health plan designed for people with significant behavioral health needs, intellectual or developmental disabilities, or traumatic brain injury. It combines behavioral health, physical health and pharmacy coverage and includes care management.

NC Peer Warmline

North Carolina

A free, private line at 1-855-PEERS-NC staffed by people with lived experience of mental health or substance use challenges. It is for support and a listening ear rather than emergencies.

Neurodivergent

Neurodivergence

A community term for people whose brains work in ways that differ from what is considered typical, including people who are autistic, have ADHD or have other differences. It is an umbrella term, not a diagnosis.

Neurodivergent burnout

Neurodivergence

A period of deep exhaustion and reduced ability to cope that can follow long stretches of masking, overload or unmet needs. Recovery usually involves rest and reducing demands.

Neurodivergent-affirming therapy

Therapy & care

Therapy that treats neurodivergence as a natural variation rather than something to eliminate, and adapts communication, pacing and goals to fit how you think and experience the world.

Neurotypical

Neurodivergence

A term for people whose thinking and processing fit what is considered typical for most people.

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Out-of-network

Therapy & care

A provider who does not have a contract with your insurance plan. Coverage and cost may differ, so it is worth calling your plan to ask.

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Panic attack

Feelings & experiences

A sudden wave of intense fear that peaks within minutes and can bring a racing heart, shortness of breath, dizziness or a feeling of losing control. Panic attacks are frightening but usually pass. Because these sensations can have other causes, it is reasonable to get a medical check-up.

People pleasing

Relationships

A habit of putting others' wants ahead of your own needs to avoid conflict, disappointment or rejection. It often looks like automatic yeses and leaves people feeling drained.

Psychiatrist

Therapy & care

A medical doctor who specializes in mental health and can diagnose, prescribe and manage medication. Many psychiatrists focus on medication and refer to therapists for talk therapy.

Psychological assessment

Therapy & care

A structured evaluation, often with interviews, questionnaires and testing, used to understand things like attention, learning, autism, mood or personality. It is different from ongoing therapy.

Psychologist

Therapy & care

A professional with a doctoral degree in psychology who provides therapy and can also do psychological testing and assessment.

PTSD

Feelings & experiences

Post-traumatic stress disorder, a diagnosis some people receive when symptoms such as intrusive memories, avoidance, negative changes in mood and feeling on edge continue for a long time after a traumatic event. Only a qualified professional can diagnose it.

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Repair

Relationships

What happens after conflict when people acknowledge the impact of what happened, take responsibility and reconnect. Healthy relationships have conflict and repair.

Rumination

Feelings & experiences

Going over the same thoughts, often about the past or about what went wrong, again and again without reaching a resolution.

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Self-esteem

Feelings & experiences

How you think and feel about your own worth. It can rise and fall with life circumstances and with how you were treated over time.

Sensory overload

Neurodivergence

A state where sounds, light, textures, smells or other input feel like too much to process. It can lead to shutting down, irritability or needing to leave.

Sliding scale

Therapy & care

A fee that is adjusted based on what a client can afford. Availability varies by provider.

Somatic therapy

Therapy & care

Approaches that pay attention to body sensations as part of healing, on the idea that stress and trauma are held in the body as well as the mind.

Stimming

Neurodivergence

Repetitive movements or sounds, such as rocking, tapping or humming, that help with regulation, focus or joy.

Superbill

Therapy & care

An itemized receipt from a provider that you can submit to your insurance company to ask for out-of-network reimbursement. Ask your plan what it requires.

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Teletherapy

Therapy & care

Therapy by secure video or phone. Many people find it easier to fit into life, and it works well for many concerns.

Therapeutic alliance

Therapy & care

The working relationship between you and your therapist, including trust, agreement on goals and the sense that you are working on it together. It is one of the strongest signs that therapy is likely to help.

Therapist

Therapy & care

A general word for a professional who provides talk therapy. Because the word is broad, it helps to check the person's specific license.

Trauma

Feelings & experiences

The lasting effect of an experience, or a series of experiences, that overwhelmed a person's ability to cope. Two people can go through the same event and be affected differently, and there is no wrong way to respond.

Trauma-informed therapy

Therapy & care

Care that recognizes how common trauma is, prioritizes safety, choice and pacing, and avoids re-traumatizing you.

Treatment plan

Therapy & care

A written outline of what you and your therapist are working toward and how. It can change as your needs change.

Trigger

Feelings & experiences

Something, such as a sound, smell, place, date or situation, that brings back a strong emotional or physical reaction connected to a past experience. Triggers are personal and are not a sign of weakness.

Trillium Health Resources

North Carolina

The organization that manages public behavioral health and developmental disability services for many eastern North Carolina counties, including Pitt. It also offers a Medicaid Tailored Plan. Its Access to Care line is a place to start.

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Ultimatum

Relationships

A demand that comes with a threat of consequences if the other person does not comply. It is different from a boundary, which is about what you will do.

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This page is general information, not medical or clinical advice, and it does not replace care from a qualified professional. Last reviewed September 26, 2026.